OLUWAJIMI . J . THORPE

A role model is a person who inspires and encourages others to strive for greatness, live to their fullest potential and see the best in themselves. A role model is someone we admire and someone we aspire to be like. We learn from them, through their commitment to excellence and through their ability to make us realize our own personal growth. We look to them for advice and guidance. A role model can be anybody: a parent, a sibling, a friend, a boss, a leader but someone of our most influential and life - changing role models are teachers. Our youth lack role models in many important fields of human endeavour such as in agriculture, entrepreneurship, manufacturing, education, health and other sectors. Role models in sports, politics and entertainment will need to imbibe good morals and values. For instance, most students are trained to complete their education and seek positions in the public sector in Nigeria where the public sector accounts for a staggering 70% of the eco...

Mohammed Buba Marwa delivered the letter bomb that killed Dele Giwa – Dr. Taiyemiwo Ogunade On Sunday, Professor Taiyemiwo Ogunade gave a bombshell interview to The NATION newspaper in which he made startling revelations about those who killed Dele Giwa in 1986.  In a subsequent chat with Saharareporters, he spoke specifically about the role of former military administrator of Lagos State Buba Marwa in the assassination of the colourful journalist. Dr. Ogunade disclosed that soldiers loyal to the slain General Mamman Vatsa identified Marwa as the person who delivered the parcel bomb that killed Giwa, the Newswatchmagazine founder. He said the revelation came from a confidential discussion he had with one of the military boys who came to the City University of New York (CUNY) to press the college to train Nigerian military officials in “Peace and Conflict Resolution”.  He said that Vatsa gave a four-hour long testimony to the military tribunal that tried and late...

Good morning, a great thinker was asked what is Life? He replied, "saying Life it's self as no meaning, but you have an opportunity to give it a meaning." It's another day, You have the opportunity to make it meaningful.  My boyfriend is abusive, He claims to love me but how can you love someone you don't trust.  My boyfriend has the passwords to my social handles and he also invade my privacy but I can’t have his. It that bad to the point that in school he tells his friends to watch where I go, who I am talking to. It's so bad that I feel frustrated anytime I try talking to him about everything, he always threaten to break up with me. I love this guy what can I do?

                       Hi, my name is  Danielle, i met my bf  in a bar when I went on a trip to S.A, He took my number that night. i thought he wouldn't call after that day, we chat everyday, he is in South Africa  and i'm working in Nigeria. We meet again after two weeks for the second time and then we meet again for the following day which we spent the night together, he was so passionate and caring. We continue seeing each other every weekend until I came back to Nigeria, he promised  to come over to see me in March, but gave an excuse that he had a conference his company was organizing. I don't know when i will see him again but he promise that he will come back ‘coz he loves me so much, so we decide to continue our relationship. Its very hard on me ‘coz its first time in a long distance relationship.  I am trying to be patience, Almost one month we are doing chat on whatsapp etc. but now...

When all WHEN ALL things, SEEMS LOST WHEN ALL doors, SEEMS SHUT WHEN ALL hopes, SEEMS GONE & When all THINGS, DOORS AND HOPE seems LEADING TO DEAD ENDS / not to make sense. When all seems lost, shut, gone seems leading to dead end & seems not to make sense   You just need to look at yourself as the concentric of your environment in which you tend to see the physical phenomenon of Mother Nature, in which the world may seem big and “ YOU TEND NOT TO SEE BEYOND IT”  “YOU TEND NOT TO SEE BEYOND THE WORLD” BECAUSE?     '' You tend to become what you project yourself becoming''. WHY? *Because you don’t tend to think outside your comfort zone. *You tend not to see the possibility in impossibility. *You tend not to understand that you determine what you become. *Because you tend not to understand that the key to ALL is YOUR MIND SET. ''THINK POSITIVE, THINK BIG''  ©OJThorpe ...

He met his wife 5years ago and she was the apple of his eye. She was beautiful, sexy and brilliant and had all the qualities any man would want for a wife. It was almost 2 years into their marriage when he noticed she was not taking good care of her body. This made him feel irritated all of a sudden. ‘’The woman I once loved, became my worst nightmare’’. She didn’t mind if she looked good or presentable anymore. She is a graduate, but wears wrapper that makes her look like a villager. ''When two people really care about each other, they always find away to make it work, No matter how hard it can be'' He narrated a tale about giving his wife head, but had to stop because she was stinking underneath. We have been on this issue for a very long time. I can't continue like this. His question is, why do most ladies stop and never mind looking attractive after you marry them? ©OJThorpe

Hi guys, hope your week has been great? Today, we would be helping Anonymous out of her life long problem. She is a lady in her late 20s and over the years she has been in 15 relationships in which she claims not to have been in love in any of them. Anytime she meets a guy for the first time, it all feels like she has found true love and becomes lost in the relationship, but after 2 months of every relationship, the love and the feelings for them just fades off and it becomes boring. This has continued for a very long period of her life. At one point, she had to seek spiritual deliverance. To her greatest surprise, it still continued. Presently, ‘’I am at the point of ending my life. I can't continue living like this. I want to get married and have children with a man I know I love’’. What can I do? ©OJThorpe