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I Feel He is Cheating.

                      

Hi, my name is  Danielle, i met my bf  in a bar when I went on a trip to S.A, He took my number that night. i thought he wouldn't call after that day, we chat everyday, he is in South Africa  and i'm working in Nigeria.

We meet again after two weeks for the second time and then we meet again for the following day which we spent the night together, he was so passionate and caring.

We continue seeing each other every weekend until I came back to Nigeria, he promised  to come over to see me in March, but gave an excuse that he had a conference his company was organizing.

I don't know when i will see him again but he promise that he will come back ‘coz he loves me so much, so we decide to continue our relationship. Its very hard on me ‘coz its first time in a long distance relationship.

 I am trying to be patience, Almost one month we are doing chat on whatsapp etc. but now i don't received any messages from him, i don't even know if he already change his mind.

How would I know if he still loves me, I always get the feeling that he is cheating on me.

Please advise,

Thanks.

Comments

  1. Hmmm! On one lane i feel one month is too short to know if he is cheating
    On another lane hmmm!!! Its long distance... it's possible. Anyways break up with him

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  2. You should try to get through before you conclude

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  3. @not just tantrums... why would you advice her to break up with him when you're not the one dating. it's as simple as she having patient with him. they're not in the same country anymore and definitely have hard time communicating eventually plus the time difference isn't the same. she chose to date him, she should choose to endure. if she didn't know her man well, why would she say yes to him in the first place. there's more to a strong and growing relationship than just breaking up at any slight problem or weak observation. my advice to this lady is trust your mind and do other things that will get you occupied. you done your part by reaching out to him, let him do his. this question is for you girl, if you don't trust him, why did you agree to date in the first place!? think about it and don't just assume he's cheating.

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