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IN LOVE or IN LUST??


I'm 27 and my gf is 24, My instincts has been telling me she’s cheating due to some financial challenges i've been facing and i have asked her if she’s cheating, but she clears the air saying she will never do anything to jeopardize what we have.

Recently she changed her Whatsapp dp and the environment looked weird cuz she’s not the going out type except for work which is her studio. I asked her about the pics but she said i have no right to ask her about her dp cuz she doesn't ask me such too. I told her i have the right to ask bcuz it raises suspicions but she got mad at me. So i asked her If she doesn't tell me who owns the car and who is behind the camera, it’ll hurt me but if she tells me why she was at that place and who’s behind the camera then its not something i have to be bothered about, but she got angry and cut the call on me.

My heart has been heavy. Then she called few days later, she said she was sorry for getting angry and if I breakup with her, it will kill her to know that there is nobody she could turn to, she also said that the owner of the car was her brother's friend sister and she was just saying nonsense and stammering, I have known my girlfriend and she only stutters when she is angry,  nervous or outrightly, then I know that she is lying.
  So now I'm more confused than ever,  what can I do?



Pls drop your comments, let's help  this gentleman make a decision.

Comments

  1. Not Just Tantrums19 August 2017 at 00:15

    hmm! First of all, since you have been having suspicions nd u kinda know her schedule I believe asking her about the picture was right(dont do it often) also I believe she's up to something cos she wasn't meant to get so pissed about the question (except u ask her about her pictures all the time. Its really not your business) I believe you should speak to her calmly and if you keep suspecting pls investigate

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