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Is it right for a Lady to propose to her Man? By: Oj.Thorpe


  The post for this week is not a common norm in our society, but I feel everyone  have the right to their opinion.

  I came across an article this week asking;  If a lady can propose to her man?

  This is my say about the issue, The issue of marriage is a very interesting topic, I don't think the world has gone a day without a couple tiring the knot. Most relationships tend to span for months or years without it achieving the union of marriage for many reasons, from personal character flaws, financial issues, lack of understanding, fear of commitment & even spiritual reasons.

  But in a situation when the above reasons isn't your case; I feel ladies shouldn't be discouraged in purposing to that guy that you have been dating for years. This can help in knowing if your man is really yours. It can also help you know if he is serious with the relationship and his level of commitment. It can also help you to know if you are just his sex tool that he tends to play with when he wants.

  Ladies in the house, if you have reached the age of marriage and you know your man is responsible and qualified in all cretaria to be called a Father, Please I would advice you to implie your own norm in this part of the world, take that bold step even if our culture & religion wouldn't permit it.

  I'm encouraging all single ladies of marriageable age, most especially our Nigerian ladies to give it a try.

"If he loves you, it would be Yes"

What is your say about this?

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